Negative thoughts surface in us when we read more negative intent/outcomes in other's actions. If we tuned our mind to read every action of other's as driven by some positive motive, we will not get frustrated with thoughts that they are out to get us. At a very minimum, this will keep us happy and focused on doing our job well. This is very important to stop any cascaded repercussions as well. If our immediate feeling to one of other's actions is unhappiness, then, it would help us to analyze what positive reasons would they have done that for, and what positive outcomes that could provide for us. As soon we find some points for these questions (and we will, if we think), the same situation could make us happy. In the corporate world, everybody has a job to do and passionate professionals always try to do their best. This could be aggressive/abrasive at times, but, it would be best for us to not take any of it personal. If we are smart and passionate, then, our laurels will speak for us.
I cannot thank my mother-in-law enough for being my valued role model practicing this everyday.
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